Thursday, October 16, 2014

It's All So Hard To Believe.....


It is so hard to believe that Fall is here and the trees are gradually changing!
 
 
It is so hard to believe that this sonogram was taken over a year ago and.....
 
 
that these two precious babies will be one year old this coming Sunday!  How time flies!
 
 
It's hard to believe that my crocheted potholder wreath appeared in Romantic Homes this month.  (More on that later).
 
It's hard to believe that John had been in the hospital for a week and Tuesday, they came in and told us that we might as well go home and be comfortable because there was nothing else they could do for him.
 
It's hard to believe that on Monday, Hospice will be coming to the house to start helping take care of him.
 
It's all just so hard to believe.
 
But, God is still good and will see us thru all of this.  The doctors and nurses have all been just fantastic and we are so grateful to them for their love and care.
 
I will be posting when I can.  I can sew at home while he is resting, so that's what I will be doing a lot of.
 
Thank you for your many prayers!
 
It's all just so hard to believe.
 
Judy
 
 


64 comments:

  1. I always follow your blog but have never commented. Im so sorry to hear your news. You are one of the strongest women I have ever "met" with the sweetest nature. Please know I care and send you and John prayers and caring. God bless you both.
    Suezk

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  2. You're so right Judy. It's so very hard to believe. Life goes by in an instant, like a shooting star. All we can hope for is to see it and appreciate it for as long, or as little, as it lasts.

    You're an absolutely amazing woman and I'm in awe of your strength and positive attitude.

    xxx

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  3. Oh- Judy- I am sorry for you in having to deal with your husband's illness. That is a sad statement to hear. If you get a chance I have a link posted on my blog today that you might find very helpful. I just mentioned it to Brenda to share it with you.

    Congrats on the crocheted wreath and God bless those beautiful grandbabies. Joy and sadness intermingle in our lives, don't they?

    Blessings- xo Diana

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  4. Judy, I'm so sorry to hear that John is not doing well! You and John will be in my prayers! Caring for those we love while they are ill is challenging as well as a blessing. I know! I treasure the times I took care of my husband while he was ill and I wouldn't trade a moment of that time for the world now that he is gone! I'm praying that you are able to find the joy in the moments! Prayers and Blessings, Cindy

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  5. I'm so sorry Judy-keeping you and John in my prayers.

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  6. Judy, I am sorry. I know this is not what you wanted to hear from the doctor. I will continue to keep you both in my prayers. Please take care of yourself also.
    Congratulations on being published - well deserved! Two beautiful little girls - I know you are proud.

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  7. Judy, with love for you both. You and John are in my thoughts all through each day and I pray for both of you and those who are helping you and John.
    Love and many hugs.
    Joy

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  8. I am sorry Judy. I just said a prayer for you and then I saw your post. I don't even know what to say.
    Those little babies are adorable.
    Congrats on your wreath being published.
    Hugs and more prayers

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  9. Oh, Judy...my heart is aching. I have been through this hospice situation with my mother, sister and a brother in law. It really will be a helpful aid for you. Actually, it's so comforting to be in your own home...you will feel better with that, I'm sure. Please tell people when you want their company and when you don't. Get some sleep when you have someone there with John. Enjoy every minute you have with him...that won't be hard. Ask for time alone, as well as time for yourself.

    I wish you all the best. I wish I were there to hold your hand, be a shoulder.

    So much love coming from me to you.

    Jane xxxx

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  10. Hi Dear Judy, I know you and your sweet husband have been through so very much. God will sustain and keep you during this precious time. you both are in my prayers. Sending a big hug, Debra

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  11. Keeping you and John in my prayers.
    ~Cindy

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  12. Oh Judy, I'm so sorry to read your news. My heart is breaking for you. You and John will be in my prayers.
    Congratulations on having your potholder appearing in Romantic Homes!
    Happy Birthday to those precious babes.
    Hugs and Blessings,
    Cheryl

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  13. I'm a regular reader who doesn't comment ... but I wanted to let you know that you and John will be on my prayer list.

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  14. Judy, bless your heart! You and John are also in my prayers.
    Hugs.

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  15. Judy, congrats on that beautiful wreath getting the attention it deserves!! I love your creations. And prayers will be going up for you and John. Our family has used Hospice and I have to say that they are such caring people, angels on this earth for sure.

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  16. Dear Judy You have captured the joys and the sorrows of life in this post in such a touching way.
    I am so sorry to hear the latest heart breaking news of John's illness....as you say it is hard to believe.
    Keep enjoying your sweet family, and making your wonderful creations.....your design in Romantic Homes is beautiful.
    Sending you love and hugs.
    Helen xox

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  17. Judy, I'm so sorry to hear you news. My thoughts and prayers will be with you both. Blessings from the UK

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  19. Praying along with you and all of your family! LOVE those two cuties and that sweet crocheted creation! Sending HUGS and continued prayers your way! God is good and will be there with you as you care for your Husband!

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  20. Dear Judy, I am so sorry to read this news. It is hard to believe. Take care of yourself and John and know that so many are praying for you both. Sending lots of hugs and much love!

    Linda

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  21. Oh, dear Judy, I'm so sorry to hear the news about John. I keep both of you in my prayers all the time and will continue to do so. Your strength and courage is amazing. Sending you lots of love and hugs from IL.

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  22. Judy, I want to send a hugs to you and John. I wish there was more I could do. I will have you both in my prayers. I will be thinking of you both. Blessings, xoxo,Susie

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  23. I'm sorry to hear that you are getting hospice in for your husband. That must be a hard thing to accept.

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  24. I'm so sorry about your husband. I am praying for you all. You have a wonderful joy in the midst of all this with those beautiful babies. Enjoy the good moments and rest in the assurance that God is with you in joy and in pain.

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  25. My thoughts are with you, Judy. You and John have been through so much this last year. Sending prayer for his comfort and strength for you. I know how much there is to do for a sick loved one. Take care of yourself, but I know that is often easier said than done.

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  26. Dear Judy, my thoughts and prayers are with you and John. May God give you comfort, peace and strength in the days ahead.
    Your courage and grace is an inspiration to all.
    Blessings XO

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  27. I read all of your posts, Judy, but I don't think I have ever commented. You and John, along w/ his care-givers are in my thoughts and my prayers. We worked with Hospice when my mom was ill, and they are angels here amongst us. We all need to live more in the moment, and this post is certainly a reminder to do so. Take care of yourself, too.

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  28. Well, you know I'm here. We've both done that for one another. I just wish I could do more. The wreath is beautiful. You are really super-talented. Holding you in my heart, always.
    Brenda

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  29. I'm also a reader who has not commented before, but want you to know my prayers have been and are with John, you and the caregivers as well as your family. May God hold you all in His hands and keep you as I know He is so able and willing to do.

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  30. I will continue to pray for you and John.

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  31. Judy, so sorry to hear this awful news. I know hospice will be there to assist you as much as John on this journey. And I am so happy for you that you have those beautiful babies to shower with love. Can't wait to hear more about the wreathe. Remember to be good to yourself now and rest when you can, Annette

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  32. Judy, you and John have been in my prayers for a long time.. It's hard to believe what has happened. We don't want to believe it..
    Sending caring wishes for John to be comfortable and for you to have strength. Take care of yourself.
    You have such cute Grandchildren.. I think they all look like you.. You have such a nice smile.
    Your wreath is lovely.. So glad you're getting the recognition.
    Know that I'm thinking about you.
    Hugs, Charlotte in Virginia

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  33. So sorry to hear this news....but God is good and I know He will give both of you the strength and peace you need.

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  34. I will keep you and your family in my prayers during this time.....May God Bless you and keep you in his Grace...

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  35. Hospice will be a big help for both you and John, but I know the idea takes some getting used to. People try to be strong at times like these, but it doesn't hurt if you go into another room and cry sometimes.

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  36. Darling Judy,

    I kept quiet about this until you thought it was the right time to share this on your blog.

    My thoughts, love and prayers are with you and John. I love you both.

    love,
    Claudia

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  37. Oh,Judy...
    I;ll be praying for you and your hubby...
    I read about your wreath in the Romantic Homes magazine last night! Good for you and Congrat's!
    Take care!!!
    warmly,
    deb

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  38. Oh Judy...please let me know if there is anything I can do. I would drive up to Tulsa if you need something. This just sucks. You've got my phone number if you want to call any time...day or night. Loving you both! XOXO

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  39. My heart goes out to you my dear friend. I've been keeping you both in my prayers...my hubby and I will keep praying. Take care of yourself. We are all so proud of you. Sweet hugs, Diane

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  40. Judy, I don't often comment but I wanted you to know that I will continue to hold you and John in prayer. This is a very difficult chapter in your lives, be gentle with yourself.

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  41. Oh Judy, you and John are in my prayers and my heart goes out to you. I so wish I lived closer so I could help out. Hospice was a big help for us with my Mom. Crying will help, to ease the burden, tension and pain. It also will help you deal better, so cry!
    It is so hard to believe!

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  42. I'm so sorry for all that you and John have gone through and are continuing to go through. It is all so hard to believe. You and John continue to be in my thoughts and prayers. God bless.

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  43. I am so sorry to hear the news. I will be praying for you both. Hold fast to your faith, God will see you through.
    Hugs,
    Patti

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  44. Bless you both Judy and John..and your families..You are such good people..Hugs

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  45. There are times when the answer to our prayers is not what we would desire. We have all desired healing for John. Our prayers have been answered. He is healing John, just not on this earth. I have been praying that the two of you would receive His grace and will continue to do so. Know that you are both loved out here in blogland and you are surrounded with love. He has set angels over you.

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  46. Judy,
    My heart is breaking for you. I am sending powerful prayers your way. May this time with John be full of joy and remembrance and not too much sadness. I wish this for you. You are one of the strongest women I know to endure all you have. Hugs my friend.
    Kris

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  47. Sending up prayers. Hospice can be a tremendous help lean on them for some support. The babies are adorable they grow so quickly. Congrats on Romantic Homes. Amy

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  48. My thoughts and prayers are with you Judy.
    Hugs,
    Meredith

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  49. I am a reader that does not post often.

    Please know Both you and John are in my prayers.

    HUgs, Janie

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  50. I am a reader that does not post often.

    Please know Both you and John are in my prayers.

    HUgs, Janie

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  51. Oh my goodness Judy, what a roller coaster it's been, life is sure full of ups and downs. So many blessings and so many hard times too. Will keep you and your family in my prayers.

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  52. My heart is breaking for you. I am sending prayers and lots of cyber hugs.
    Hugs,
    Lynn

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  53. Oh Judy, how precious that you can find peace in the midst of the storm. You are an inspiration. Let those two little ones and your faith carry you through the days ahead.

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  54. Dear Judy,

    How your words pierce the soul. Life can bring such unwanted burdens, such stony paths, but as you so eloquently said, God will see you through this. To have faith, even in the midst of heartbreaking events, is one of life's mysteries.

    May you feel God's peace surround you as you face the days ahead.

    Kind regards,
    Dayle

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  55. Keeping you and your John in my prayers that you will find the strength and peace for the days ahead. You are remarkable woman who has managed so many cares with grace. God bless.

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  56. I am so very very sorry to hear about John and the sad news from the doctors. I hope that everything goes as well as it can. You are in my thoughts and will remain there. xx

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  57. I read your blog often, but haven't commented before. My heart goes out to you, I am dealing with some of the things that you are, and I appreciate your grace. I just keep remembering what I read somewhere " the courage to face what life brings, everything lies in that". God bless.

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  58. My precious friend....I am so sorry to hear about John. You have such grace and understanding that life is in God's hands. But! I am so sorry - so sorry that you are walking this walk you are on right now. Please give John a big hug from me and Barry. Yes, it is hard to believe. But you know that Landon will be there to take Grandpa's hand when Heaven's door opens.

    Love and happy birthday wishes to the girls. Life is bittersweet...and yes, hard to believe.

    hugs,
    Becky

    PS: congrats about RH feature!

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  59. Thoughts and prayers to you, John and your family.
    Peggy D

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  60. Your strength, and faith have always shone through, and now even more. My thoughts and prayers for both of you in this difficult time. Sending huge hugs to you.

    Jen

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  61. Judy and John my thoughts and prayers go with both of you. I know your faith is strong. God Bless.

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  62. I'm so sorry to hear this news, Judy...sending love and prayers your way for peace and comfort...xoxo

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